From Hearne, page 797: "Jessie, daughter of Jesse and Lizzie Ingram Haywood, born June 14, 1902, and Alton Haywood, born September 29, 1904;"
Mount Gilead TWP, Montgomery, North Carolina 1900 Census, page 232, sheet 1, June 2, 1900.
Family 13
J(?) B Haywood, head, W, M, Aug 1865, 34, md 12, NC, NC, NC
Sarah(?) E Haywood, wife, W, F, Mar 1867, 33, md 12, 7 children 6 living, NC, NC, NC
Walter I(?) Haywood, son, W, M, (?) 1889, 11, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Lilley Haywood, dau, W, F, June 1890, 9,sgl, NC, NC, NC
William S Haywood, son, W, M, Jan 1892, 8, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Frank Haywood, son, W, M, Aug, 1894, 5, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Eller Haywood, dau, W, F, Jan 1896, 4, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Henry Haywood, son, W, M, Mar 1900, 2/12, sgl, NC, NC, NC
NOTES: several words are indecipherable. The wife's name is probably Sarah E., but could be Lizzie E. The husband's name may be Jesse B or Jas. B
Mt. Gilead TWP, Montgomery, North Carolina 1910 Census, page 87;
Family 74
Lizzie Haywood, head, F, W, 43, M, 22 years md, 9 children 8 living, NC, NC, NC
Walter Haywood, son, M, W, 21, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Lillie Haywood, dau, F, W, 19, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Stephen Haywood, son, M, W, 18, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Frank Haywood, son, M, W, 15, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Etta Haywood, dau, F, W, 14, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Henry Haywood, son, M, W, 10, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Jessie Haywood, dau, F, W, 7, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Alton Haywood, son, M, W, 5, sgl, NC, NC, NC
NOTES: This census is critical to matching the other two censuses, and finding Oscar (see below). It matches Hearne most closely and clearly identifies Lizzie and all of the children, except Oscar. It validates Hearne's dates, it establishes that this is indeed the right family. It helps to establish J.B.'s death.
Mount Glead TWP, Montgomery, North Carolina, 1920 Census, page 98, sheet 5A
Family 6
Sarah Haywood, head, F, W, 52, Wd, NC, NC, NC, Hotel industry
Walter Haywood, son, M, W, 30, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Etta Haywood, dau, F, W, 23, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Henry Haywood, son, M, W, 19, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Jesse Haywood, dau, F, W, 17, sgl, NC, NC, NC
Alton Haywood, son, M, W, 15, sgl, NC, NC, NC
About Lizzie's name: Hearne and 1910 census refer to her as Elizabeth, but she goes by Sarah in the 1920 census, and probably in the 1900 census.
About Oscar: Oscar is not found on any census. However, the 1900 and the 1910 census list all of Sarah Elizabeth's living children, and there is only one that is not living. The order of children in Hearne matches the widest gap in the children. Therfore I conclude that Oscar was born in between William and Franklin (probably about 1893), and died before 1900.